Sunday, November 23, 2008

Happiest People....are those who...

The most miserable people I know are those who are obsessed with themselves; the happiest people I know are those who lose themselves in the service of others......

You don’t choose your family, they are gods gift to you, as you are to them…..

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Tomorrow is not promised…..

Thank God for another day im still with you........to love and to care you...

I know we are busy....with our routines and regularity but we must not forget from expressing our love to each other...because tomorrow is not promised to us, you never know when you will have another chance...Life is short..Speak what you feel to the loved one.....

So..let me say this to you ...i love you..all my heart now and forever!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

True Love...

True Love...
Binds us together without a cord
it is the music of every heart
True Love is a lifelong treasure
It is the light on the darkest day
Love is a gift divine
flowing from God's heart to yours and mine...

Friday, October 10, 2008

Why you're in my Life?

Now i realized...Why you're in my life...
To teach me.....to hurt me..... to love me. and to make me exactly the one I should be...You're God's gift to me...
Thanking God..for the gift HE gave me...

Monday, October 6, 2008

In Life..We are The Happiest Person..When..

A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." she offered.

"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with. The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.


"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your list." The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it. "Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

IN LIFE, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see and praise the good and try our best to forget the bad. Nobody's perfect but we can find perfectness in them to change the way we see them.
We are not trying to condone what is bad. Correction does much, but encouragement does more. "The blue of heaven is larger than the clouds."

Saturday, September 27, 2008

How To Make Yourself Happy...

1. Have targets and goals
2. Smile always
3. Share the happiness with others
4. Willing to help others
5. Keep a childlike heart
6. Get on well with different kinds of people
7. Keep calm when surprise comes
8. Keep the sense of humor
9. Forgive others
10.Have some really good friends
11.Always work in a team
12.Enjoy the family gathering time
13. Be confident and proud of yourself
14.Respect the weak
15.Indulge yourself, sometimes
16.Work from time to time
17.Be brave and courageous
18.Finally, don’t be a moneygrubber

Friday, September 26, 2008

Once in a Lifetime....you'll meet that special someone...

Once In A Lifetime
You’ll meet that special someone
Who brings out the best in you
Who becomes the meaning of your life

You eat, breathe, talk, sing, dance,

laugh, dream, smile and live
All because of him/her…

Your very life and existance
Your reason for being here
Becomes clear
That is when you know
That he/she is the one for you

And without him/her
Days are just but days
And life is but a word

So when find that very one
Hold him/her close
You’ll find yourself living
Dancing in the colors of the rainbow…


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You're In Love..

When you are together with that special someone,
you pretend to ignore that person.
But when that special someone is not around,
you might look around to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to thatspecial someone.
Then, you are in love.

Although that special someone was supposed to
have called you long back, to let you know of their
safe arrival,your phone is quiet.
You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e- mail
from that special someone than other many long e-mails,
you are in love.

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase
all the messages in your answering machine
because of one message from that special someone,
you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets,
you would not hesitate to think of that special
someone. Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is
just a friend (",)
but you realize that you can not avoid that person's
special attraction. At that moment,
you are in love.

While you are reading this page, if someone
appears in your mind, then u are in love with that person....

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

What is Love...

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart.

Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own

A man who was completely innocent, offered himself as a sacrifice for the good of others, including his enemies, and became the ransom of the world. It was a perfect act.

Love, you know, seeks to make happy rather than to be happy.

You come to love not by finding the perfect person,but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

U know..something....Its's not what we get from LOVE..., it's what we give to Love...
Love never claims, it ever gives

Monday, September 22, 2008

Understand Yourself.....

The Most Difficult Phase Of Life is NOT when no one understands you....
It is when you don't Understand Yourself.....

The world is beautiful, but has a disease called man

Death must be so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one's head, and listen to silence. To have no yesterday, and no to-morrow. To forget time, to forgive life, to be at peace.

There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

I dont know what is LOVE..till i met U...i love u so much...... You're my life...

No one has ever seen God, but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.....

The one who stays beside you no matter what happens and never finds faults in you....

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Life..........

IN LIFE.... Whatever you give to life, it gives you back, do not hate anybody. The hatred which come out from you will someday comeback to youLove others, and Love will comeback to you. In life, Wherever you go....whatever you do...GOD is in you...with you...always there for you!

GOD IS GREAT! GOD doesn’t give you the people you want instead. GOD gave you the people you need. to teach you. to hurt you. to love you. and to make you exactly the one you should be. Thanking God for the beautiful life HE gave me...

MY BELOVED GOD...... make my love for You the most beloved thing to me, and my fear for You the most fearful thing to me, and remove from me all worldly needs and wants by instilling a passion for meeting You, and when You have given the people of the world the pleasures of their world, make the coolness of my eyes (pleasure) in worshipping YOU...

I BELIEVED.... i believed no mountain’s too high when there’s a will..... no river’s too wide believe there’s a way. This beautiful world could not be seen except for the optimist people....

MY LOVE.... I love you with all of my heart, body ,and soul. You complete me. You make my life worth living. To have known you and to have loved you has been the most beautiful dream. I can only hope that I never wake up....my life more beautiful when you're with me...!

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Nice Stories Column....

Welcome To Nice Stories Column....

Ever since the beginning..... The girl's family member disagree her relationship with the boy. Saying that because of family background, if she insist of being together with the boy, she'll suffer for her whole lifetime... Because of the pressure applied by family members, she frequently quarrel with him. The girl does love the boy, she used to ask him: "How much do you love me?" Because the boy is not good with words, he used to make her angry. With additional comment from her parents, her mood get even worse. The boy, has become her "anger releasing target". And the boy, just silently allowed her to continuously release her anger on him...

Later, the boy graduated from University. He plan to further study overseas but before he left... He proposed to the girl... " I, don't know how to say nice words; but I do know that, I love you. If you agree, I am willing to take care of you, the whole life. About your family members, I will work hard to convince them and agree on us." "Marry me, will you?", the girl agreed. And her parents, looking at the effort shown by the boy, agreed with them. Finally, before the boy go oversea, they are engaged. The girl stay back in the hometown, step into the working society; whereas the boy continuing his study oversea... They maintained their relationship through telephone and letters. Although time is difficult to get through with, but both of them never give up. One day, the girl left home for work as usual; on her way to the bus stop, a car lose control and knock her down. As she awake from unconsciousness, she saw her parents and realize how seriously... she got hurt and how fortunate of her, not to get killed. Looking at her parents, with their faced got all wet by their tears, she tried to comfort them. But then, she found out.... She can't even spell out a word, she tried her best to make some voice but all she managed, was to breath without any voice. She's mute... According to the doctor, the injury affected her brain, and that cause her to be mute for the rest of her life. Listening to her parents persuade, but can't even reply with a single word, the girl collapsed... Throughout the days, others than crying silently, still it is crying... Later, the girl discharged from hospital.

Returning to her home, everything is still like before. Except that the phone ring, has turned into the worst nightmare of hers. Ring after ring, continuously stimulate her, stimulating her pain... But she can't tell the boy. She don't want to be a burden to him, and wrote him a letter... Telling him that she no longer want to wait, the relationship between them ended, and even returned him the engagement ring. Facing the letters and telephone from the boy, all she can do, is to allow tears falling from her eyes... Her father decided to move, after seeing the pain she is suffering. Hoping that she could forget everything and be happier... Changing to a new environment, the girl started to learn, slowly picking up sign language and start over again... Also telling herself to forget the boy... One day, her best friend tell her that the boy's back. He's searching all around for her, she asked her best friend not to tell him about her and asked him to forget her.Later...

There's never news about the boy, for more than a year. Her best friend tells her, that the boy is getting married soon, and passed the Wedding Card to her. She open the card sadly, but she found her name on the card. The moment she want to ask her best friend, the boy appear in front of her. With an unfamiliar sign language, he told her.... " I spent more than a year's time, to force myself to learn sign language, in order to tell you, I have not forget our promise, give me a opportunity, let me be your voice." " I L O V E Y O U. " Looking at the slow sign language by the boy, and the engagement ring she gave back to him... She finally smiled.

Treat every love as last love... and only then, know how to give... Treat every day as last day... and only then, learn how to appreciate...

Don't ever give up as God never give up from loving you!!! Remember that every problem has a solution...never ever break someone's heart...you may not know when it will happen to u!!!

ANOTHER NICE LOVE STORY.....

There was once a guy who was very much in love with his girl. This Romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl. Although,at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future doesn't seem too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she couldn't visualize any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then....

Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he Regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and Mind just to make something out of him. Finally with all these hard work and with the help of friends, this guy Had set up his own company..."You never fail until you stop trying."

One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing An umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella,they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize those were his girl friend's parents. With heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company,car,condo, etc. He made it! Before the guy can realize, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, And he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his girl, a Photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he Saw his paper cranes beside her... Her parents saw him. He asked them why This had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She Was ill with cancer.

She had believed that he would make it someday, but She did not want to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him..."Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have."She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her,because, If the day comes when fate brings him to her again... he can take some of those back with him...

"Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever." "Find time to realize that there is one person who mean so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person whom you thought meant nothing to you. The guy just wept ...

The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them..."

Reputation is what people think you are...
Personality is what you seem to be....
Character is what you really are...


GOD'S BOXES...

God's Boxes
I have in my hands two boxes,
Which God gave me to hold.
He said, "Put all your sorrows in the black box,

And all your joys in the gold."
I heeded His words, and in the two boxes,
Both my joys and sorrows I stored,
But though the gold became heavier each day,
The black was as light as before.
With curiosity, I opened the black,

I wanted to find out why,
And I saw, in the base of the box, a hole,
Which my sorrows had fallen out by.
I showed the hole to God, and mused,
"I wonder where my sorrows could be!"
He smiled a gentle smile and said,
"My child, they're all here with me."
I asked God, why He gave me the boxes,
Why the gold and the black with the hole?

"My child, the gold is for you to count your blessings,
The black is for you to let go."